I've made a pact with my friend Janet down in Oregon, who is shoveling out her basement after bidding a fond farewell to her college-bound twins, that we will do this de-cluttering thing together, at our own pace, cheering each other on as we go.
We celebrate via e-mail. I write: "Dear Janet, I got rid of that box of frames. They weren't even in good enough shape for the Goodwill so I chucked 'em all. It felt strange, but also liberating." To which she replies, "YAY FOR YOU!!!!!!! I managed to clear out that filing cabinet this weekend." And so forth. Embarrassing as it is to have accumulated all this stuff--and to be as paralyzed as I seem to be about getting rid of it--it's nice to have company as I do the work.
Which brings me to: Grandmummy's China.
My dear southern grandmother had a plate for everything, it seems. Several complete sets of plates, in fact. After she passed away a few years ago, I came home one afternoon to find four HUGE crates on my front porch. Grandmummy's crystal and china, sent to me all the way from Georgia. None of which I had requested. All of which was evidently now mine.
I am not, as my friends will tell you, a china & crystal kind of gal. So it's been sitting in the storage unit forever. A few months ago, I gave the crystal to some dear friends who love to entertain and will no doubt use even the the grapefruit cups and compote dishes.
The china is Havilland, and flowery and trimmed with gold and can't go in the dishwasher... It's too nice to just leave it out for The Truck the next time they call... so if you want it... it's yours.




2 comments:
Good job cleaning out the clutter! I love the idea of using fancy china for everyday eating, and I would have taken you up on this offer, that is, until I saw that it can't go in the dishwasher. Dealbreaker, that.
Surprisingly, it's the same dealbreaker for me. This stuff is lovely (although not "me" and sooo fragile). I have read the same lovely essay that circles the internet, about the woman who had a whole drawer full of exquisite lingerie, but never wore it, waiting for "a special occasion" - and then she died from cancer & had never had her "special occasion." So I already have a set of special china (also a gift) that we use and dishwash, willy nilly...
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